"We, autistic people, have to be better than neurotypical in order to fit in. We have to be kinder, more aware, more flexible, more adaptive, more polite, yada yada yada. We need to educate our friends, colleagues, family members, journalists, politicians, artists, hell even doctors sometimes about what it means to be autistic."

Sounds a lot like what I grew up hearing AA people saying. Now they don't do that anymore, because they see themsevles as equal and they should be allowed to have the same number of issues as everyone else.