The situation I'm talking about too many men doing is not just happening to be attracted to someone younger, that happens to me too. If you're actively excluding which most women have seen far too many men do, it's different. We SEE it on Match.com and similar when their search says X age always lower than their own and no, we don't like it, in part because it's something we can't control and in paty because the woman is often more vunerable. I've seen men who look far less than average with great women and hot women far more than women looking less hot. It is what it is, men are not well known for choosing who they are. And while yyou may have earned the distinction, I don't see it nearly as often as I should.

As for things like creativity and building, you find it where it is. MOST women I know regardless of age do creative things and DIY activities. So it's the circles you're looking in that may cause misses there.

I think we will continue to work on women's health and that will continue to make a big difference. But some things don't die easily.