The money women spend to maintain themsevles would suggest they don't forget. I think they're simply disappointed that men don't seem to value personality more as they get older. Not personality, not work, not sacrifice, not the responsibilities women often take in addition to their own jobs the men often do not, not the constant efforts at self-improvement. And the hypocrisy that they’ll accept wrinkles, eye bags, flabbiness in themselves, but less by their own admission in women because they don’t feel they have to. But one wonders about the quality of their relationships if they see women as interchangeable in this way. It’s sad for them. I consider myself lucky that I’ve found men of such good quality.