The bottom line is too many men have not been able to be the primary provider so women must help with that work. The men on this page I mentioned all believed they would get rich following Grant Cardone, but it's not likely. That is the part you're avoiding.
Where I lived I could have had a drab life with little prospects if I relied on a man alone, but because I was driven, I've been all over the world, have done a great variety of things and have literally helped millions. So yes, you're a fool, but not really..
Men with money often do exactly that, chase toddlers at 45+ many rich women are now doing that too. They live longer so why not?
Most women who do this wait until they already have fertility and health problems. This is what leads to the issue in egg quality, many have also used an inferior freezing technique, cheaper but noticeably less effective. It took 10 years after I did it with the proper technique for that practice to die out, maybe longer than that, Water must be drained from the eggs to keep them from having a big thawing problem.
Women who save their eggs before problems should be seen a s a different group because most of the failures aren't there. If someone like me has 60 well-rated eggs, I have more than I can use. Viable embryos can be determined in a petri dish so it's not risky. There's also an unpopular option to get good eggs out, it involves taking a cross section of ovary. Some rich celebs have done that one. Thousands of eggs avail for use, but painful.
Also because I'm healthy and look young, my company tends to be younger, 40s, generally. These days, younger, educated and supportive. Men 10 years older seldom are. So no loss for me although I would date someone 10 years older if they could handle it well in theory. I'm pretty well set right now in the partner category though.
Good luck!