It seems to be because the more sensational things keep coming from her. 1. Throwing a broken bottle that severs a finger. 2. S*ting on a bed (We’ve now heard that JD was not home and the stuff on the bed would have been a problem for Amber and not JD) 3. Discussing out loud that she was hitting him on tape while NOT saying, you know, you hit me too, but then claiming it in court.

But his text messages were pretty mean as were some of his other recorded words. We also don't know what didn't make it into court or what hasn't beeen presented yet. I've also been with somone who worked to break me down mentally, so I'd explode and I'd be the one yelling or fussing or "being dramatic" even though he was actively provoking. So I decribe them as a perfect storm. And I'm not ready to put the blame on one person.