If the world around me had been more open to intellectual women and I'd had more opportunity, I would gladly have married young and finished college. Congratulations on both. If anything, I'd think a younger person would be more likely to marry a fellow college student for love, and if both feel they are up to the challenge, why not try? Yes, it would annoy me too to see such judgments. N=1. Each person's life and relationships are their own.