I think that you have every right to be angry at this situation. As far as being nice, everyone should do what they can to respect each other but absolutely you have the right to your own feelings. I'm not hearing the same things regarding humanitarian supplies and as far as what aboutism, it's hamas's job first as the government of Gaza to do their job of feeding and protecting and watering their people and giving them the resources they need to be able to work and to have economic power of Their Own. I believe all that money is definitely there but it's being misdirected and it seems the only way to stop that is to get rid of Hamas.

I would also love to see a change of the guard inside of Israel. I think this government is too angry and not up to the challenges of today to meet the moments properly. They are creating more problems than they are solving.

From what I can tell the Palestinian militants have created a bad situation with several countries in the area. Jordan, kuwait, Lebanon , and Egypt come to mind . This being said those countries and others in the Middle East are not exactly experts with getting along with each other. Hamas though seems to be working against any attempt to make Palestinians happier and More in control of their lives and they're doing that because they're using them. And Iran certainly likes the idea of using Palestinians as boots on the ground while they sit back and watch things. My best to you during this hard time.