I recently received blockage from someone who made a remark about larger women having no opportunities and needing to fix themselves. I pointed out, that if she prioritized men, she only needs ONE to be interested in her and there was many men, if porn was any indication, who found such women attractive, and that I, when my weight was higher, found no difficulty in finding them.

I guess it burst his bubble that I didn't think it was worthwhile to try to be "universally" appealing as opposed to simply my best self. Whatever philosophy works to put women underfoot sometimes, sadly.