I find this "insult" quite funny given how often I've met men who immediately put ME in the F#$#$ category but neither of the others. They did those kinds of things all the time, within seconds of meeting me, thought nothing of it, no getting to know me, but for THEM being seen as someone tough and stable and also attractive for the long haul is a downgrade? The other options are not an upgrade. I do acknowledge though that most of us want all 3 in one person and that's what he wanted to hear though!