I appreciate Natasha's passion, and I think she should absolutely accept that while the Roe situation is not a good one, no one has to live with it each and every day. I have dear and not so dear people in my life who are losing time, getting old before their time and losing life to the stupidity of racism. Dreams and opportunities of all kinds gone over nothing.

Also, every true friend should be interested in their best peeps' life's work, whether it's bowl-making, activism or childcare. You should care enough about your friend to be interested in what they care about. About what makes their light turn on, and what holds them back. I'm sorry this friend isn't smarter.