First of all, White people, especially in the Eastern US don't consider Jews White and often say so, so that argument is from your OWN prejudice.
I won't tell you I never see discrimination, I didn't say that, but what I've said is largely true. People don't like fusses that distract from work or make a bad impression on consideration for others, since there's lots of work being done to make situations better. I've been a professional since the 1990s and it's a walk in the park compared to what it once was. And NO, NO ONE would think it proper to lecture you on what you wear or how to keep your hair. I think you're lying, honestly. You‘re just writing to write here, not the real deal. And yeah, as far as writing, I can write and if it sounds disingenuous to you, it's because you're invested in the idea of discrimination happening to you ALL THE TIME.