Bad life decision due to young age and lack of worldliness and lack of honor code for men on how they treat women is more like it. And every woman will tell you the same.
Don't expect women to trust you on one end and assume you're kind if you want to then blame them for not reading minds. It's bull.
“Matos holds a weekly TikTok Live (@abetterloveproject) that allows him to speak with hundreds of people about relationships, giving him plenty of data that piggybacks off the findings of studies that show men are lonelier than ever and staying single longer. He said that he consistently hears from women in the 25–45 age range that express a desire for male partners “who are emotionally available, who are good communicators, and who share their values.””
Men don’t feel like they have to be these things to women to take their time. They do. That’s why so many guys are alone more. When I was younger more of them did the work or at least tried if they were my age, not significantly older.