As someone on the spectrum, I often get accused for almost ANY logical discussion as talking too much (most Autists ARE wordy) or being negative (speaking about a logical issue matter-of-factly). I've tried to add charm to it, but some people even take that wrong, as sarcastic when it's not, or as meaning something hostile when it doesn't. That may reflect your insecurity more than the other person’’s wish to be hostile. But more than a few also exaggerate how often it's happening, in order to "disarm" what they think is a threat. If I don't agree or fall in line often enough, and someone views me as lesser than they are, and therefore think they have the right to soft push me in a direction and then forget about me, then I surely am, because that is not me. I’ve learned to be more gentle and have read books about an idea called “non-violent communication” and that has helped a lot. It still doesn’t make people less open to opinions other than their own, which I expect.